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Wednesday, August 14, 2013

What You Don't See is What You Get

Sometimes when I listen to the urban radio stations or watch BET, it’s almost like being in an abusive relationship with someone I love so much but know isn’t good for me—on the contrary, they’re hurting me by forcing me to suppress who I really am in favor of keeping them in my life. I love Hip-Hop and still check for new music with all the naïve fervor of a twelve year old girl at an advanced screening of a new Twilight movie starring Justin Bieber and Lady Gaga. But too often I am disappointed with what I find.

Since I rap, it’s easy for people to call me a “hater” being that I’m not seen on MTV or BET everyday jiggling my behind, or heard on the radio talking about how good my “female anatomy” is. Since I was born in 1982, it’s easy for the younger generations to say that the golden era of the 90’s was nothing more than the asphalt on the road, and today’s Hip-Hop is the Rolls-Royce Phantom that’s driving on top of it. Since I am more than just a Hip-Hop head, but a lover of all things muse-ic, sometimes I think myself too judgmental when my soaring creative expectations aren’t met. Perhaps it’s a combination of the three, but in the spirit of honesty I decided to think a bit more critically about my likes and dislikes and to answer that familiar burning question… why?

There is so much talent out there. I can see it clearly, even in artists I don’t particularly like. There are clever wordsmiths, masters of creative visuals, marketing geniuses, shrewd, savvy business men and women, trendsetters, envelope pushers, and so on. I see them everywhere. The question then becomes, if I can clearly see their talent why don’t I connect with their music? At first it was kind of mind-boggling and I almost resigned myself to the hater position and made this a very short blog. Then I remembered one crucial element of songwriting that is sorely lacking even amongst the most talented artists of today—the concept song. For those not familiar with the term, its basically a song where everything centers around and reflects one central subject or concept.

The concepts currently employed by the vast majority of mainstream Hip-Hop have become so predictable that half the time when I’m listening to the radio I can guess what rhyme will follow what word. It’s gotten to the point where the basic elements of a Hip-Hop song are no longer the blank, white-walled rooms where storytellers like Nas, Slick Rick, and Scarface once painted pictures of inner city life like bold, expressive graffiti. Mainstream Hip-Hop subject matter is now a restrictive, confining space where the walls are already covered with acceptable clichés and corny, trite catch phrases. That in and of itself is enough to turn my stomach, but again the question is why?

In a world this vast, this beautiful, this full of wonder and laughter and cruelty and injustice, why are we always talking about the same things? Let me exemplify my point with a challenge, which I am literally thinking up as I type. I can name 10 words/topics right now where at least one of them is used in 4 out of 5 songs that play on Power 106 here in L.A. (You can insert your city’s popular Hip-Hop station here.)

1. Money
2. Cars
3. Fame
4. Sex (Body parts such as ass, objectification of women, talk of sexual prowess or ”freakiness” etc.)
5. The Club
6. Drinking or Smoking
7. Expensive Fashions (clothes, diamonds, gold, cars etc.)
8. A New Dance Move (twerking etc.)
9. Superiority (Being a boss, being better than every other rapper or the best rapper alive, being more attractive than every other chick or having the most attractive chick, etc.)
10. Gangster Mentality (violence, weapons, dominance, intimidation, gang affiliations, crime etc.)

That was way too easy. I probably should have gone for 15 or 20, but you get my point. One thing I want to make clear, I respect the right of any artist to talk about whatever they feel compelled to talk about. I don’t really care if people rap about the subjects I listed. What I do care about is all the things that aren’t being said. As a mother to a young son, I live in constant fear about the day he starts school and starts to learn from his peers because young people today are completely immersed in this “10 word Hip-Hop” culture. They are bombarded with sounds and imagery and ideas day in and day out at levels for which there is no precedent. This is a first for mankind; with the advent of the internet and social media we are more connected to the things we love than ever. That can be great or terrible, depending on what you love.

If you love music from an artistic perspective—meaning a perspective where music reflects the society we live in accurately and sometimes acts as its conscience—there might be one song on the radio or TV that will satiate you for 3 or 4 minutes out of your 24 hour day. The other 23 hours and 56 minutes, you’ll either be drunk, high, and twerking in the club waiting on Mr. Wrong to come smack your behind and say “You the baddest bitch I ever seen”, or ready to tear the place down, right after you shoot the bitch-ass-nigga who stepped on your kicks and get the hoe with the biggest booty to go home with you for a one night stand. (Without tricking any of that money you earned selling crack to your neighbors, of course. I mean it is YOUR birthday. She should be paying YOU to screw her once and never call again.)

So what is there for the rest of us, who don’t subscribe to the “10 word Hip-Hop” paradigm? Industry people seem to always say that there’s no market for any other type of Hip-Hop or urban music. Well, just about everyone on my Facebook friends list would probably disagree with that. I hear people asking for something different every day, but have yet to see anyone in the industry with the courage to give it to them. Rappers often say what they do is simply “entertainment” and not to be taken seriously. As an adult, I understand that. I have no problem with adult subject matter in music. I do, however, have a big problem with adult music being marketed to CHILDREN. (See 2 Chains & Kanye’s video for Birthday Song, where in one scene, (barely) teen-aged kids are sitting in front of a school watching a woman attempt to put her legs behind her head.) The word “entertainment” does not absolve the creator of said entertainments of all moral, ethical, and social responsibility. I also have a big problem with kids being told that their value lies in how much wealth they can amass, or young women being told that if they “ain’t got no ass they ain’t got shit”, or young men being told the kind of woman that is most desirable is called a “bad bitch”.

With all that said, I am deeply troubled by what is not being said far more than I am by what is. The elimination of the middle class, police brutality, the NSA spying on us, the dumbing down of America, the abuses of power by corporations, in Government, and on Wall Street, racial profiling, the slaughter of young black males, mass incarceration and the prison industrial complex, war profiteers, the bloated defense budget, education budget shortfalls, the lack of respect for women, the stereotyping of Black people, the endless cycles of poverty plaguing us, the positive contributions to society our people make every single day—none of these things are being talked about at a level that does them justice. It’s almost like everything that is important in the world at large is invisible in the Hip-Hop world which makes for a viewpoint afflicted by what I can only liken to a cancer, spreading through our communities malignant and unchecked.

I don’t want to tip the scales too far in either direction as that would not be a realistic portrayal of our lives either. All I want is options that are more reflective of our multidimensional beauty than the narrow scope of vision induced by current offerings. I want BALANCE. If that makes me a hater, then so be it. I really do hate it that so many people with so much talent and visibility can’t see the benefit of spreading love and integrity over lust, greed, and envy.

Sunday, April 22, 2012

"Family Values"

This is a work of my digital art called Family Values... Interpret away! :)

Thursday, January 19, 2012

Top 5: Most Underrated Albums

1. Scream – Chris Cornell

This album was absolutely amazing to me! More than just music, it was a continuous listening experience expertly crafted by my favorite producer and my favorite Rock singer of all time. It was a critical disaster that received horrible press and was openly bashed by other Rock artists for its urban sensibilities, but I found it to be groundbreaking and refreshing in a world where so many things sound exactly alike. It’s become increasingly obvious that the distance between us all is shrinking with the advent of social networking and other communication related technologies. This was an album that incorporated so many musical genres, styles, and cultures I felt like it accurately reflected how small the world has become. I absolutely love Chris Cornell’s lyrical style and his vocals are stellar. The only rational explanation for this album’s lack of positive buzz: it was far, far ahead of its time.



2. /\/\ /\ Y /\ - M.I.A.


Unlike Cornell’s Scream M.I.A.’s album MAYA received a ton of buzz in the beginning and was often touted as one of the most anticipated albums of 2010. Fans of her earlier work seemed a little bit critical of the way she presented this 3rd offering, saying it lacked the innovative edge of her previous 2. I did not agree. I thought it was a testament to her growth as an artist, and it pushed the envelope with both it’s production and lyrical content. I love albums that don’t sound like anything else that’s out at the time, but affect the sound of everything that comes after them. This was definitely one of those albums.



3. Morning – Amel Larrieux

I had to go back 6 years instead of 5 just to add this album to the list (it was released in 2006). I have been a fan of Ms. Larrieux since her days with Groove Theory and she has never let me down. This album was the pinnacle of that soaring ability to lift my spirits, make me laugh, make me dance, and make me think that she has. The production sounds like it was carefully crafted and influenced by music from all over the world, and the lyrics to every song are both memorable and meaningful. The thing that stands out the most to me about this album though, has to be Amel’s voice. It has this ethereal quality that is all at once accessible and intangible. Her next release is definitely on my most-anticipated list.


4. Pebble to a Pearl – Nikka Costa

Nikka Costa may be the most underrated artist in music today, period. This particular album won me over because it was so authentic, so real, so soulful… it was just plain undeniable. Her vocals are powerful and confident, her lyrics are thoughtful and clever, and the production is a nod to everything that is good about the soul music of the 60’s and 70’s. What more could you ask for in an album?







5. Transition – Ryan Leslie

I am a huge fan of R-Les, and this album was a perfect indication of why. He really brings musicality to the forefront of everything he does. As a producer he doesn’t necessarily push the envelope but he certainly does lick it and stamp it with his own signature brand of Pop-R&B. You get the impression that this guy could create a masterpiece with nothing more than a broom handle, some rusty piano wire, and an empty coffee can. He possesses many of the qualities I love in artists like Prince and Michel Jackson, and this album shows that he is not a one-hit-wonder fly-by-night type. This man is definitely on the fast track to legendary status.

Thursday, January 12, 2012

Don't Cheat Yourself, Treat Yourself (Like a Human Being)




Sooooooo a facebook friend of mine recently brought an "interesting" article to my attention. It was titled "Let Your Man Cheat". (You can read the article for yourself here.) The article is in response to another article on the Huffington Post site by sociologist Dr. Eric Anderson, who is the author of a book titled The Monogamy Gap: Men, Love, and the Reality of Cheating.

Whew, where do I begin? First of all, I do not agree with the notion that all men cheat. It is simply not true. That would be like saying all women don't cheat. Now doesn't that sound stupid? Men are certainly designed to respond sexually to many different stimuli, especially if it's visual. I do believe that it is part of their genetic heritage to be aggressive sexually, as sexual prowess is key in winning a suitable mate. In the days of early humans, sexual prowess also implied dominance and an ability to protect that mate, which was an important part of the selection process.

Today, women no longer require the direct protection of a man to survive. A woman can learn to defend herself, or buy a gun, or simply call the police. So what has happened to the male instict for sexual dominance? I believe it has morphed into the male desire to cheat. It's completely understandable, men are designed with pro-creation in mind and so their instinct tells them to fertilize as many women as possible in order to further our species.

But to say that in order to keep a man happy he has to be allowed to cheat is a stretch. We all have compulsive desires. Some women like to shop, and perhaps we could infer that the behavior of shopping is linked with the gathering responsibilites of the early human woman. So by that same standard, women should just be allowed to shop and shop as much as their hearts desire, regardless of the consequences to themselves and those around them, right?

It is just as foolish as it sounds.

To add a little more perspective to my point, the arguement that men are genetically predisposed to be unable to control their sexual urges is the same arguement that is used to justify legal rape in some countries. I'm sure most men you ask will tell you that rape is morally wrong.

So what is the point here? To say that men should be allowed to cheat because they can't help it really doesn't give men a whole lot of credit. I think men are much, much more than sexual beings. If nature didn't intend for them to be capable of a commited relationship (which requires faithfulness) then men simply would not have the capacity for love at all. And I think every man who is currently in a successful monogamous relationship is clear evidence to the contrary.

I could go on and on about this but in conclusion, I'd just like to say I am a woman in a monogamous relationship where great sex, laughter, and common interests are part of my daily life. I absolutely adore my man, and would not trade him for anything, and everyday we fall a little more in love. I pity anyone who does not know the joy of not only being with someone you can trust, but BEING someone who is trustworthy. It has truly enriched my life and made me a stronger, more confident woman.

There is just no way that what the good doctor is proposing is anything more than a sweeping generalization, rooted in a lack of understanding about the purpose of sexual relationships as they relate to the growth of a well-adjusted human being.

Nice try Dr. Anderson... Nice try.

Thursday, August 25, 2011

RIP Aaliyah: The Princess of "Street But Sweet"


In a world rife with bubble-gum cookie cutter pop stars, I have a hard time finding pop music that my artistic sensibilities respond to... I'm the type of girl who wants not only to dance, but to feel a connection to what I'm dancing to. I want to share a moment with the song, I want to be transported.

If there was one person who could make me feel that way it was Aaliyah. On this, the 10th anniversary of her passing so many bittersweet emotions arise. I love the outpouring of memories and support I have seen from all her fans, but I really wish she were still here.

People often ask, what was so special about Aaliyah? It's a difficult question to answer, because there were so many things. But one thing in particular stands out to me. It was her ability to be understated yet sexy, to exude this poised polished demeanor that was still so hood. She was sultry but subtle, fierce and smoldering in the coolest possible way. She was, as I have heard her describe it, "Street but sweet."

I wish so many of the over-sexualized objectified stars of today would take a moment to follow that example. Aaliyah proved that you didn't have to do what everyone expected to be successful. She stood on the merits of her talent and self-confidence and it was indeed enough. She was a trendsetter who was not afraid to try something new and to be herself, and I will always admire, respect, and miss that element in the music game.

RIP Aaliyah!!!

Thursday, March 17, 2011

All Is Fair In War........ And War




A friend of mine who is a veteran recently expressed some anger and discontent with the celebration of the life of late Hip-Hop artist Nate Dogg saying in a facebook post "the majority of us on this site didn't know that dude so why care? He didn't care about you or me. Why don't all of us mourn our brothers and sisters that are dying for our country every other day? That seems more worth our time." I don't disagree that the lives of the soldiers who die everyday in the ongoing conflict in the Middle East should be remembered. But there are some fundamental problems that I have with the statement itself. Let me break it down.

1. Soldiers are not the only ones who have died in the war. Thousands of innocent women and children have been killed. Should we not also remember them? Are their lives not just as valuable as the lives of our soldiers?

2. Are our brothers and sisters really dying for us? Or is that the lie they have been told to get them to go to war in the first place? The more research you do, the more you see that this war really has nothing to do with terrorism, its all about one thing. Profit. There are powerful people who get rich off of the suffering of others, and these war profiteers don't give a damn about any of the people who die so that they can have 2 Bentleys in the garage instead of just one, or take their families and friends on lavish vacations providing them not only with a free trip to some of the world's playgrounds for the super rich but also such amenities as childcare. I'm not making this up, these are things that have been clearly documented. Who owns the construction companies that are "rebuilding" Iraq and Afganistan after we destroy it? Members of our own government. Who Owns the Oil companies that would benefit so greatly from control of the oil rich lands in the Middle East? Americans. We shouldn't mourn the soldiers who die, we should prevent further unnecessary loss of life in their memory.

3. Why is it that we are so quick to mourn soldiers, but not ask was it even necessary for them to die in the first place? To the best of my knowledge, diplomacy has not been used at all to try and solve any of the problems we have had post 9/11 with the Middle East. But no one questions that. And more and more soldiers and civilians keep dying everyday. What is the point?

To quote a phrase, nobody wins a war. Period. And I would just like it known that I don't want or need ANYONE to die on my behalf, especially not for oil and money and politics. I remember all those who have made sacrifices, but I do not ask it of them.

So we can say, the death of Nate Dogg is nothing compared to the deaths of soldiers, but we can also say the deaths of 4,326 soldiers who made the choice to serve a government that put them at unnecessary risk pales in comparison to the deaths of an estimated 151,000 people in Iraq. Where does it end? No one deserves to die, and all lives are valuable. Until we understand this, we are looking at an incomplete picture.

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Some links I found particularly interesting:


Iraq War Casualties: US Military Deaths and Civilian Deaths


The 25 Most Vicious Iraq War Profiteers

The Rip Off In Iraq: You Will Not Believe How Low The War Profiteers Have Gone


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And finally, a song that truly makes a statement about war:

Nobody Wins A War - Raheem Devaughn Featuring Jill Scott, Bilal, Anthony Hamilton, Chrisette Michelle, Algebra, Shelby Johnson, Ledsi, Citizen Cope, Dwele, Chico Debarge, and Rudy Currence

Nobody Wins A War Song Lyrics

Friday, February 25, 2011